Why Wait?

If love is there and you think that this is the person that you’re going to end up with- do you wait until you’re ready for the ideal relationship? or do you live in the present?

I found myself conversation with someone about their “non existing” relationship. They broke up with their girlfriend for over a year. However they talk on phone and via email all the time. They share a “special bond” so much so that they still tell each other they love one another...how there’s no one out there. BUT they don’t want to be together. They are waiting for the “right time.”

My take:
Alicia keys said it best: "This is exactly how it should feel when its meant to be. Time is only wasting so why wait for eventually. If we gonna do something about it. We should do it right now.”

I find that we are always looking for something better. We have a man but we want a rich man. We have a rich man but we want a gorgeous man. We have a gorgeous man but we want a funny man. I mean if you love someone and feel that they love you to -at some point you have to accept the flaws. If you sit there and think that there's a magic world you will go flying off into the sunset on a magic carpet....until that actually happens then you’re wasting your time. We hear the cliché all the time – LIFE IS TOO SHORT. But why do we always just say that when someone dies. Why can’t we say that when we come across someone that is your best friend, someone that gets you, someone that holds conversations with you? Are you really too scared to be together?. if you were hurt by this person before sure there is hesitation but if you love this person and are continuing to hold onto to them waiting for the right time....then there may never be a right time.